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Dept. of Reawakening

Hello Again

For so long I haven"t wanted to post - or perhaps more accurately, I've wanted to post, but haven't been able to. Lacking emotional spoons, I suppose. It's a battle to write for work. It's a battle to communicate with my beloved, because my brain's so empty and, despite what some folks say, without a brain you can't express your heart. It's a battle to keep the house clean, even when I have the time; it's hard to think, hard to be creative, hard to connect with other people unless I absolutely have to. 

In short, I am, apparently, pretty depressed.

There's no medication I can take, or adjust, to deal with this. I'm already on meds that have stood me in good stead for some time, and the last time I checked with my shrink, he evinced no interest in changing them, nor did he seem to think I needed any change. Right now, I don't have the energy to consider changing shrinks, so I simply have to battle - there's that word again - myself out of this.

One way to battle depression is to list some of the things I've been doing that are either positive, good, or even funny or remotely out of the ordinary. 

So let's go: 

I've ordered and received five pounds of premium buckwheat hulls. I have therefore been able to refill my three Korean neck pillows, a necessity as the buckwheat hulls break down and the pillows lose their rigidity. I love my neck pillows. I can't sleep without one. 

I've worked on Chapter 28, as I mentioned. 

I've started watching Season 7 of Game of Thrones (many thanks to FB, who gave me his HBO Go password, and with whom I fangirl thereafter.) BB finally admitted that he wasn't in the least interested in watching Seasons 2 through 6 with me, so I'll watch those at my leisure. It's actually a relief; I'd strongly suspected that BB didn't want to watch, and kept telling him he didn't need to, but for the longest time he insisted that he was fine with watching it. 

We're refinancing the condo, something I'm not sure I've mentioned before. I was already going to be in my 70s before the mortgage was up, so extending it out longer, for lower monthly payments and lower interest rates, was a good idea. Many thanks to BB for taking the initiative on that with our mortgage holder. 

We finally, finally got started on getting our wills set up. There's more work to be done, but we've started, and that's a big deal. 

I've gotten through the first season of Sense8, and am embarking on the second season. It's brilliant. 

And there; that's all I can get myself to write about.

How have all of you been?

 

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eaweek
Aug. 10th, 2017 04:44 pm (UTC)
Everything with Dean Lady is wonderful. I told her yesterday I was job-hunting (had kept that to myself until now, but I felt I had to break the news sooner or later), and she was actually verklempt at the thought of losing me. Former Dean Lady is now blessedly retired, and I hope she doesn't let the door hit her in the arse on her way out of the college.

I can't imagine either staffer being rehired. One of them was going to retire next year anyway (she was already retired from her previous career in government; she has a pension and social security, so she's fine). The other is younger and much more vulnerable; I need to call her and see how she's doing. I hate that they were let go in such an abrupt, shitty manner. I also hate having all this extra work dumped on me. And I feel guilty that they're laid off and I still have my job. : (

Vacation was so wonderful. I'm still glowing!

I joke I'll watch the TV series properly after all the books are written. I won't even start the books until a publication date for book 7 is announced. At the rate GRRM is writing, I'll be watching GoT sometime in 2030. : D
kaffyr
Aug. 11th, 2017 01:23 pm (UTC)
I'll keep my fingers crossed that your college somehow emerges from the financial morass, aided by significant growth in enrollment. And if you can get even a part-time single aide back, perhaps that will be within possibility.

My next vacation is a long weekend at Thanksgiving, followed by a week between Christmas and New Years (one benefit of having Way Too Much Seniority, even in my poorly-paid position, is that I get to take the prime vacation times. And, while I try to be kind and fair in most things in life, I figure I've reached this point without quitting or hitting anyone, so I deserve the prime.)

I figure I need to go back and reread A Dance With Dragons, because I feel relatively optimistic that we'll get Winds of Winter before the end of 2018. (Mind you, I snorted as I wrote that. Heh.)
eaweek
Aug. 11th, 2017 03:30 pm (UTC)
I'm not holding my breath on things improving here any time soon; the years of poor/ blinkered decisions and cronyism have finally caught up with us. This would be bad enough, but it was compounded exponentially by my former boss's asshattery back in 2015, which garnered us some simply horrible publicity, which caused our already tottering enrollment numbers to plummet even further. Then, instead of working to remedy the problem--via developing new academic programs and trying to recruit different populations of students--the faculty and administration wasted critical time with infighting, squabbling, bickering. So our competition is running many miles ahead, while we limp along at the rear.

The entire category of staff assistant was eliminated, so sadly, I don't see any of those jobs coming back. I had naively hoped they would at least keep young S on board, but no dice. Faculty are going to have to do things for themselves. It's going to mean a certain amount of cultural re-training, because faculty are so accustomed to just walking in at the last minute and plunking down jobs on someone's desk, knowing it will be taken care of. They're going to have to plan in advance, horror of horrors.

I've already let my boss know I'm looking elsewhere. She's verklempt, but she understands. I made it very clear that leaving the college is not my first choice, but I need to make a change for my own financial security. I don't have a spouse who can support me if I'm laid off. I don't have wealthy parents who are going to die and leave me a fortune. I'm my sole source of support, which includes stashing away money for retirement. I can't afford to be a Pollyanna and think maybe everything will be okay. If the college doesn't fold outright, it's probably going to be subsumed into another institution (so we'll either merge with one of our fellow consortium colleges, or we'll become part of Boston University or somesuch), in which case a lot of staff jobs are going to become redundant. I'm not going to sit around and wait for that to happen. If I get a decent offer that's within my salary range, I'm out of here.

Anyway, enough about my woes. : )

I'm glad to hear you have a vacation coming up, and I would be shameless about taking prime vacation time. It's a perk of seniority, and even knowing nothing about your job, I'd say you've bloody well earned it. : D

LOL about being optimistic for the release of Winds of Winter. I definitely would not bet money on that. : )
kaffyr
Aug. 12th, 2017 05:07 pm (UTC)
I wish you the best of luck in finding a new job. It would be great if the college miraculously (and quickly) rebounded, but since that's on par with unicorns and rainbows, I'm rooting for someone to realize what a catch you would be for their team, and to offer you the proper remuneration.

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